Who Parents the Parents? Nurturing Families Through Positive Parenting

On March 12th-13th, 2025, the Loyola Centre for Media and Communication (LCMC) held a transformative Child Identity Formation (CIF) training at St. Joseph Loreto Crest in Kangemi. The training brought together 44 parents for an engaging discussion on positive parenting, focusing on the thought-provoking question: Who parents the parents?

The Journey of Learning and Growth in Parenting

Parenting is often seen as a one-way process where adults teach and guide their children. However, as Fr. Odomaro Mubangizi emphasized in the training, parenting is also a journey of learning, self-reflection, and mentorship. Parents, too, need guidance, support, and opportunities to grow. Through interactive discussions, parents explored how their children shape their own perspectives, reminding us that learning is reciprocal within families.

“Parenting is not about control but about fostering guidance and understanding.” This captures the shift from authoritarian to supportive parenting emphasized in parent testimonials.

Ms. Caroline Kibugi further linked positive parenting to children’s rights, stressing that fostering respect, responsibility, and self-discipline in children begins with a deep understanding of their fundamental rights. She highlighted how small, consistent efforts can nurture confident and responsible individuals.

Practical Insights and Collective Commitment

The training sessions were filled with enriching testimonials, group discussions, and alternative approaches to parenting. Parents shared real-life experiences of moments when their children influenced their decisions, reinforcing the idea that parenting is not about control but about fostering guidance and understanding.

By the end of the training, participants committed to applying what they had learned, embracing positive parenting practices to create nurturing home environments. The CIF program proved to be more than just a learning experience; it was a catalyst for transformation, equipping parents with the skills to raise their children with love, discipline, and empathy.

Strengthening Families, One Parent at a Time

As part of its mission, LCMC remains dedicated to empowering parents through continued support and resources. Strong families build strong communities, and through initiatives like CIF, we are taking bold steps toward a future where every child grows in an environment of respect and encouragement.

The question Who parents the parents? may not have a single answer, but through shared learning, mentorship, and community support, we can ensure that parents receive the guidance they need – so they can, in turn, raise empowered, confident children.

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